DISCOVER YOURSELF BEFORE ENTERING A. RELATIONSHIP By Benedict Okoro

Self discovery is a personal business and a pointer to a life - long fulfilling destiny. When it comes to self - discovery, people get skeptical as they begin to wonder why they need to discover themselves before entering a relationship. As a man, you need to find your purpose first, there's no point over-emphasizing on it, know why God created you first before adding a woman with another life to yourself then you become double.

Relationship means carrying another's affairs on your own affair, the case becomes worse if you as an individual is pointless, having no bearing or direction. The case becomes aggravated if you as an individual have no case to pursue, no VISION, nothing to trigger you.


Discover yourself, so that your partner will not meet you confused or gallivanting. There are cases where the lady helps her man achieves his dream, that's when he has taken a step to discover himself.

As a lady, don't ever think your man or lover would help you discover yourself, like i said earlier, it personal. Discover yourself and your man would be running around you not wanting to leave you.
Discover your potentials he'll be proud of you. No typical African man has the time to discover a woman but can only assist in improving her. If self discovery isn't important why did the Bible first of all introduced Deborah first, as a prophetess before talking about her husband. Why do late Dr. Dora Akinyuli husband cried hell when his wife died why was HID AWOLOWO celebrated as a matriarch, a woman of substance.

God bless you.